I say I’m one in a million; my father used to say I was won in a raffle – but in actual fact I’m 1 in 8 : one of the the seven million adults who have given up health, wealth, career and life-expectancy to be unpaid carer for an elderly or disabled friend or relative.
With love. Always with love. But not always voluntarily. Often because the was no other option. Statistically, 58% of carers are women, but my experience is that when it comes to working-aged people, it is generally women who draw the short straw. Well, bless us, what else have we to do? It’s not like we do real work or have a real life or anything.
We’re a growing army of the forgotten and dispossessed. Every single day another 6,000 join our gang. Me, I’ve been gang member for seventeen years. And for the last few years I’ve joined the inner circle and become – not one in a million but one OF the million who cares for more than one person.
Between the two I haven’t had a holiday from caring for well over three years.
SO, what’s all this to do with the price of fish? All very sad but what can be done etc. ?
Well, number one, in the run-up to the election, all sorts of figures were being bandied about but blow me not this one: We carers are estimated to save the state £132 billion per year (and that doesnt include lost work input and lost tax).
Lets dig deeper:
- Over 3 million people in the UK juggle care with work. How the significant demands of caring mean that 1 in 5 carers are forced to give up work altogether.
- Carer’s Allowance is the main carer’s benefit: £62.70 for a minimum of 35 hours care a week, equivalent to £1.77 per hour – far short of the national minimum wage and £10 a week less than JSA. (And of course you may be working up to 168 hours a week for it). CA is means tested. Earn over £116 a week and it’s gone.
- Over 1.3 million people provide over 50 hours of care per week- and 6 out of 10 of us are women. Carers providing high levels of care are twice as likely to be permanently sick or disabled.
- There is – unsurprising – a high correlation between being an unpaid carer and poverty. So maybe it is also unsurprising that its women who have a 50:50 chance of having been an unpaid carer by the time they are in their 50s. (Men have to get to 75 to reach the same statistic)
(all figs from CarersUK)
The Conservative manifesto made the infamous pledge that you – yes – YOU, the person reading this, the one with a job, wealth, health, a career, a pension and a future – YOU can give up your work for a year to care unpaid for someone. Not sure what you’ll live on? Wind and running water, like theis pledge was written with?
So this week is CARERS’ WEEK. Who will give up their job unpaid for just one week to spell an unpaid carer?
Don’t all speak at once